Hi everyone,
My husband (M30) and I (F30) are about to celebrate our 4th anniversary together, and our very first as a married couple. He’s mentioned a fantasy a few times: he wants me to wash him with my body.
I’ll be honest, I’m not entirely sure how to pull this off. I’ve tried searching for inspiration, but what I’ve found feels more staged than sensual. I want to make this something deeply intimate, indulgent, and memorable, not awkward or clumsy.
To set the scene, I booked a beautiful hotel room with a bathtub and mirrors. I know the obvious advice is to just ask him what he envisions, but I really want it to be a surprise for him until the night of.
So I’m hoping for some creative guidance. Specifically:
- Should I go with bubbles, bath oils, or something simpler so the focus stays on closeness and touch?
- Is this more about soapy skin-to-skin contact, or slow, lingering movements that feel like a body massage?
- Any little details or extra touches you’ve tried (or imagined) that would make this fantasy feel unforgettable?
I want him to feel cherished and swept up in the moment, and I’d love for it to be as much a gift for him as it is an experience for us both.
Thanks for the help!