So I started talking to this guy and we agreed to a date today to go see a movie and grab some coffee/tea. We were supposed to go on Monday but he asked to pushed it to Wednesday which was fine with me. With planning the place to meet up, he mentioned getting coffee over dinner, and I suggested two cafe's before we went to the movies (didn't propose it as a question I guess…) , and he has yet to respond and it is the day of the supposed date. He also had all of Tuesday to respond, which he didn't, so I am the last person to message.
Do I even bother following up asking if the date is still on or should I just assume it is not and continue with my day as usual? I would feel a little bad if he messaged me later today asking where I was, as we are both meeting in NYC as it is the midway point for us, however I am tired of the lazy or non responses from him