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We are both 25, and had started dating in college. I am her first boyfriend. We do hand stuff,but strictly no oral (she finds it demeaning) . We have not done penetrative sex till date. Whenever I ask her, first she was not ready, which I understood. But it has been around 2 years now, and she is still not ready for it. She says it will happen if it happens,but puts in no effort for it, neither responds when I try to get into the act. What should I do?