I've been seeing a lovely, amazing guy and he asked me if I could do that someday. We haven't had PiV sex yet because we are currently in different cities but I'm moving back to his city in about two weeks for college. How do I do this for him in a way that pleases him and doesn't make me uncomfortable? I wouldn't do it on our first time of course, I'll wait till we're more experienced with each other. I'm adventurous myself but I'm not sure how to go about this. I'm scared I will do it and I'll hurt him, or feel shit up there or something. He has never done it before. I have and I've eaten ass too and didn't like it (especially the eating part I got so grossed out), but that was just for a meaningless fling and I think I am falling for this guy. I want to make him happy and give him a special experience he's never had before, so I'm prepared to do it for him but I just can't disassociate it with shit and dirtiness. He asked me about pegging too, which I'm down for, but having my own finger up there is different. Would love a female/male perspective on doing this.
Edit: do not message me weird shit