Background- married 10 years, 2 school aged kids both now in elementary school. My wife abd I are both late 30s/early 40s. She was a SAHM for the last 6 years, deciding to stay home and raise the kids which I agreed with. Once both of the kids went to school, she began to have more time for herself which I was very happy for her. She got totally into fitness, weight training, cardio. I also workout in the mornings before work (5-6am) so I understand loving to work out.
Things started to change last summer though. She began buying alot of the “Lulu lemon” shorts that accentuate everything, using self tanner. Then decided to go blonde (was a natural brunette). She looked amazing and I was happy and supportive for her. Soon she would be buying all kinds of bike shorts, sport tops, bright white sneakers, and then wearing them anytime she left the house. School pick up, kids sporting games, out for walks. She would tell me about this guy or that guy who was staring at her, and to be fair when we are out the attention is quite obvious.
She’s now starting a new job at a gym nearby, and I’m all for feeling and looking good. Who doesn’t like a few glances from the opposite sex. But it seems like she gets a high or something off all the attention that she must have missed while the kids were young?