So I’m 23 my wife’s 24. We have no kids yet. I had to call out of work I feel so fucking awful man.

So on Saturday night, just me and her went out and got some dinner and drinks. We were going to start trying for a baby so it was supposed to be our last night of being able to drink and stay out late, we were never partiers before hand so nothing really happened. We just went to some bar and drank some overpriced Modelos. We usually don’t drink so we don’t really know the places.

But here’s the thing, it was mad busy and the bar was full so we were like standing at another table and she was talking to some other girls about girl stuff so I went to get another couple beers and this one lady was blocking the spot where you order drinks and when I asked her to move she was being hella annoying, so I kinda said something I shouldn’t have I was like “this kinda attitude is probably why you’re here alone” and she got all mad and then I just walked away and told my girl we should head to another spot, and she’s like “ok let me finish this and we’ll go” so I went to take a piss, and the bathroom is like facing away from where we were standing but there was a line so I could kinda see what was going on but I was just watching reels.

But then I heard some yelling in Spanish, but I don’t know Spanish I thought it was like playful yelling and laughing but then I was like “huh they’re getting kinda loud” but I didn’t wanna lose my spot in line

Then I heard “woah woah hey hey woah” and I got nervous and my wife was getting the shit beat out of her by these 3 other girls who are all twice her size.

She’s fine, bruised up, I can’t get it out of my head I haven’t been able to sleep. They threw her to the ground and were stomping on her and shit I can’t stop thinking about it.

I ran over and by then the other girls she was talking to broke it all up and we went the fuck home. Her cheek was cut really badly so I cleaned it up as well as I could and bandaged it

Basically what happened is that one girl that was blocking the bar went over to her and was bitching about me to her in Spanish, and the other girls didn’t know if she was kidding or not and were all laughing and then I guess she said something racist or something about race (wife wouldn’t tell me. Also, I am white, my wife is Hispanic and the girls she got into it with were black and one was Hispanic) and that’s when hands got thrown.

I’m just venting. I feel so fucking bad, she said it’s not my fault, but I know it is. Also, she’s fine. She got checked up on Monday, no concussion, just some gnarly bruises and one cut that isn’t infected. Also there’s no way for a police report because technically she started it. Well really I started it but on paper she did. Idk man I just feel fucking horrible


37 comments

  1. Well you could cater to her needs til her wounds are all healed…. Wish her a speedy recovery…

  2. I dont care if my wife “started it” or if I have to beat a bitch, NO ONE stomps my wife on the ground.

    They would suffer.

    What the fuck is wrong with you dude??

  5. Wow…why are you acting traumatized when you’re wife not only got the shit kicked out of her but now knows you will just stand by watching…

  6. Wow what an awful ending to a special night.So glad in the end that you both escaped what could have been a lot worse. Hope the children come soon and you can get past this low point.

  7. Your duty as a husband is to look out for your wife’s safety and fight for her. Shame on you. If I was getting beat up, my husband would be my protector and sacrifice his life for me.

  8. i don’t condone hitting women. but boy this would’ve been my one exception for me to turn into ike turner 😭

  9. My husband and I are literally on the brink of divorce fighting all the time and I still 100% know he would not just stand there and watch me get my ass beat. I’d be questioning the relationship after this if I were her.

  12. She needs to divorce you. You didn’t do anything to help her fight 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

  13. The least you could have done was throw those three girls on the ground like they did to your wife.

    Can’t believe you let them get away unscathed.

  15. It sounds like all of this happened in quick succession and in a girls bathroom which it wouldn’t have been appropriate for you to enter but the moment you think your wife is in danger again I hope you jump right in.

  16. Maybe he isn’t a fighter he just gets frustrated then when the fights starts, he runs.

  18. For someone only having a couple of beers And doesn’t drink often, you sound exactly like somebody who drank a lot of beers and drinks often lol. I hope your wife is okay

  20. My husband definitely wouldn’t have stood for that. You definitely failed terribly. What does your wife say? Is she mad? Is she really fine? Are you two talking? What’s the vibe honestly?

  23. The unexpected happened n you didn’t do much to protect your wife. As your wife said it’s not your problem, so just move on. You may consider whether lodging a police report will help?

  24. For all the folks saying how they would have thrown hands if it was their wife, you never know till it’s actually time. I find that usually the ones who talk the most about what they would do tend to have no idea and posses the least ability

  25. Why didn’t yall press charges?? It’s not your fault 3 disgusting evil WHO’REs jumped your wife. You should feel guilty for not protecting your wife and leaving it up to strangers to break it up. Maybe you didn’t get over there in time but still, don’t you know when you’re in a crowded bar or club you don’t leave each other alone? That’s how date raped start and how people get roofied.

  26. And just for the record maybe you should keep your trap shut in public since you don’t know how talk to people . People are violent. People are scared. People will do the craziest shit. Your wife got an ass beating all because you think you’re funny . You’re not funny

  27. Dude it’s not your fault at all but lesson learned you should not leave your wife with strangers at a bar ; anything can happen (sadly these were girls). Anyways – sounds like this is one of the final nights out and god way of telling you something. 🙂

  28. You just stood there just waiting for them to finish beating your wife? Actively listening to and watching her suffer? You disgust me more than the ones acting against her. You’re meant to be her protector and her partner. You’re absolutely neither. Repulsive

  31. You’re a man….I mean..your job is to protect the woman. Why didn’t you punch them ladies out dude?

  34. If he had hit any of the women in protecting his wife.. you all would be telling him how F-ed up he is for hitting women and how no matter what, a man should never touch a woman in anger. Blah blah blah. Plus, he most likely would have been arrested and charged. I truly feel sorry for men these days. They’re damned if they do Damned if they don’t.

  36. There was a controversial video recently of a man who beat up 5 women for attacking his wife. Be like that guy. Unless this is creative writing based on said video. 

  37. Maybe you didn’t realize things were escalating quickly… Just be more socially intelligent and aware… in a public bar maybe not say unnecessary things and/or be ready to fight immediately.

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