I 20F recently just got out of a 3.5yr relo my ex 21M. A lot my close friends moved away after HS, so it’s just been him and I the past few years. I’ve tried making friends through clubs (baking, sports, arts and crafts) but it really feels like no one wants to be a close friend. I’m someone who like to keep in touch regularly like 1-2 chats a week and hang out every 5-6 weeks. I’ve had one on one outings with a few people from these above clubs but nothings really sticks or clicks after these few hang outs / I get ghosted. I have Audhd and maybe that plays a part but I mask well (cus I was late-diagnosed). I have a pretty dynamic personality, i’m extroverted and I don’t really struggle to have a conversations. Another part is, I feel like I don’t have much in common people with my age like when it comes to wanting socialise through frat parties, hooking up and drinking every other weekend. I don’t mind dancing at clubs but then I’d be making friends who’d want to do on the regular, that’s not my kind of environment for a regular get together.
So what social skills am I lacking to not be able to make friends that want to stick?