I (28m) am pretty successful on Hinge in getting matches. I could get 1-2 matches per day when I look for them, but often I'm not looking for matches because it could be too difficult to keep up with the matches I have. About 20/30 percent of those matches become dates, but I barely ever go past the first date as the women I date with say "I don't feel the spark". It has gotten to the point that I can't even recall getting a second date with a woman who I've wanted to be serious with, the only second dates Ive had is if it was for a fwb.
This all happens now, but it also happened while I was a bit more successful in life (steady job, good income, etc). Right now I am without a job and studying psychology so my income is quite low, but since this also always happened before I lost the income I feel like that shouldn't be too much of a factor.
At this point I'm kind of lost and I don't even know what questions to ask for advice here. I want to ask those women what the réal problem is, but I also find that a bit inappropriate to ask after just 1 date. I guess what I want to know is, what can I do to find what the problem is (if there is a problem) or what should I do to maybe help the issue?