I went on a date. The guy told me he felt very attracted to me inside and out. It’s great. I was flattered. It’s like this with every date. Guys usually tell me they’re attracted to me physically and they had a great time, they would love to go on a second date/third date and so forth.
I think men being visual creatures and all they feel strong attractions even on a first date towards a woman. Every guy I went on a date they felt positive physical attractions towards me. They usually pay a lot of compliments during, after the date, both verbally and via texts. I would feel flattered. I also appreciate them taking me out too. We have a blast usually.
But this was the first time a guy asked me, “Are you attracted to me?”, after he told me he was very attracted to me inside and out. And that he wants to go out on a date again. I told him I usually don’t feel physical attractions to a guy right away. I need to warm up to the guy after a few dates to see how he treats me. He responded to me as that’s fair lol. 😅
I just don’t feel the physical attractions to a stranger guy on a first date usually. I need to warm up to the guy. I need to see how he treats me, how he is around me and how he communicates with me after. Then I slowly develop feelings towards the guy through his kindness, his thoughtful gestures and how he is as a person.
Never understood about ONS or FWB thing. I just don’t feel immediate physical attractions to a stranger guy right away.
Is it ok I responded like that to him? He seemed to be ok. But how am I supposed to respond to a question like that because I’m not yet sure? Is it like instant attraction to your date as a woman? How do other women feel in terms of attraction towards her date after a first/second date?