I’m only a size 10-12 but I have a decent amount of fat around my hips, legs and some on my belly. I’m lucky to have a nice shape though:
I tend to attract men whose exes are all super slim and glamorous.
I’m not ugly but I don’t wear loads of make up, I’m not into fashion or Botox/fillers and I look nothing like their exes.
I get really hung up on it and I end up backing away from them so I don’t have to go there.
I start thinking that, even though they like me in clothes, they’re somehow going to be horrified at me without them or that I’m cat fishing because I know how to dress for my shape.
I don’t know what I need to hear but women, if you have moved past this and have any advice, I’d love to hear it.
And men, if you’ve got really slim exes , did you ever go for a girl who was less ‘in shape’ and had more body fat. And did it make you any less attracted to her?