We’re both 20, recently lost our virginities to each other after a couple days of just fooling around together which was really fun, I can’t wait to see them again and do it again because it felt so good and I love them so incredibly much.
They got me off first which was surprisingly fast (we kept making jokes about how it’s “hard to find” and how they’d need “some sort of xbox controller cheatcode” to get me off but holy hell), then we got to do it together. They mentioned that they were struggling a little and “taking a while” (which is fine with me, idc how long they take as long as its fun) and very nervous, and I tried reassuring them and telling them I was having a good time and that it’s fun, and they eventually also finished.
What are some things I can do to make them more at ease and comfortable, less nervous? I love them and I want them to be as happy and content as possible and I also just want to be a good partner to them. Some sort of touching? We haven’t done oral yet and wont be able to for a long time either but I’m very interested in doing it, never done it before so maybe some tips on that would also work though I’ll probably browse other posts for that since there’s plenty of stuff on that bleh