I really need some advice. I'm a 21F, and my girlfriend is the same age. She had only ever dated men before, and I’m her first girlfriend. We've been together for 2 years and are very compatible in every way. I love her very much and want a long-term future with her, and she feels the same.
However, sometimes she talks, hints, or acts in ways that make me feel like I need to play the "masculine" role in this relationship (maybe it's because my appearance is quite masculine, so this is often imposed on me?). Recently, she told me that she's not like me, that she can't be a switch and only wants to be a bottom (like a pillow princess), and I don't know what to do. I’m not a stone top, I have my own needs and can't always be the "top."
For a long time now, every time we have sex, I am always the "top," and she doesn't touch me. (When we first started dating, she would sometimes touch me, but I never orgasmed, so I lost interest). If I have needs, I end up do it by myself. What should I do? I don't wanna break up because I still love her so much, and she is very good to me, but it's clear we want different things. Please give me some advice