I need some advice and honest opinions.
I was overseas when a girl I know (we’re not very close) texted me about an upcoming event. She said she and a few others I know were going and told me to get a ticket if I wanted to join. I was really appreciative that she thought of me, so I bought my ticket right away.
Later I found out that they actually got a table together, she never told me directly, I only found out when she slipped it into a conversation and then quickly brushed over it. So now I have a single ticket, while they’ll be at a table together.
One of the girls stays at my place a few days (not my choice, my parents allowed it), and I might end up being her ride. I actually feel weird that she didn’t mention that they got a table together, which makes me feel kind of used
This makes me feel excluded, like they didn’t really want me there but told me so they wouldn’t look bad. Im pretty sure the girl who told me about the event doesn’t even really like me, and I don’t have a deep connection with the others.
Part of me thinks I shouldn’t go, because I’ll feel humiliated being the odd one out. But another part of me thinks it could still be a good experience I’d get to try new food, enjoy the music,vibe meet new people and so on
Should I go or skip it? I feel pretty ostracised but also don’t want to waste the opportunity as I know I will probably never do this event again
Plus I’m going to start to distance myself from any other group activities.