My (25M) partner and I (F22) are both pleasers, meaning that he could take care of me for hours, and same for me about him, but we both feel kinda uncomfortable with being taken care of for an extended period of time.
I love giving him head and he says i’m very good at it which helps with enjoying it, although he said that whenever he gets head he feels a bit lonely up there. I admit that I get so focused on his shaft with my mouth and two hands, I wanna find a way to include him more, to let him know that i’m “there”, with something else than stares and talking, is there a way I can do it ? he loves touching a lot but is it not frustrating if he’s close and all of a sudden I stop head to start kissing him ? Let me know how I could do.
On my hand he likes to stimulate my clit and it makes him hard asf but since I have trouble orgasming I feel bad after sometime when I still haven’t come. He keeps saying he can do it forever and to take as long as I need to but still. the more he goes the more I just wanna stop it and take care of him.
How to navigate sex when we’re both pleasers ?