So, I (40m) have been seeing this woman (37f) for just over a year. I was interested in her… like, really interested when I originally asked her out. After a few weeks of dating she told me she wasn't interested in a committed relationship because she wanted to leave town. However, she liked hanging out and thought I was a cool guy. This kinda sucked, but I liked hanging out with her, too, so we kept seeing each other. A few more weeks go by, and she asked if we could fuck. I was shocked, but said yes. She explained that she wanted a FWB arrangement. I was understanding, because she wanted to leave town. We have continued this arrangement, seeing each other multiple times a week, but by now we have gotten close. We go for dinner, watch movies, talk on the phone, confide in each other… Proper relationship fare. No commitment, though, because she wants to leave town. I get it.Thing is, it's been just over a year now, and she hasn't gone off yet. I'm now getting to the point where I want to get on with my life. I would prefer to do that with her, but she is so focused on other things that she doesn't want to commit. I talk anecdotally now and again about coming with her, but that never goes very far. I feel like I'm in limbo. I don't know what to do. On one hand, I could stay in this holding pattern until she eventually leaves and just be sad for a while. On the other hand, I could try dating again and tell her that FWB is cool, but I want more. Buuut I kinda don't want to implode what we have on a whim. It's all so fucked up. I'm thinking that this is all I'm good for, cause my "serious" relationships had all ended by this point for personal reasons on their part.