So I’ve been seeing this guy for a bit, and the other day we got intimate but it turns out he is HUGE–bigger than I’ve ever had. We ended up not having penetrative sex for other reasons, but I didn't tell him that he’s probably too big for me. I’m pretty sure I have vaginismus which I’ve been working on, and I have an appointment with my gyno soon to talk more about it. But now I'm scared of seeing him again (I like him outside of this) because I don’t want to disappoint him. Since I'm very positive there’s zero way I can take this, I should probably tell him. What’s the best way to go about doing this??? I don't know if he'll take it as a compliment or be annoyed that penetrative sex is off the table for the close future, although he’s been really good about my other requests/limitations in the past. Also what alternatives has anyone with a similar problem found that works? Because I do want to make sure he’s pleased but it just simply isn’t happening with penetrative sex. At least not rn. Also because it seems like he has a lot of stamina that would also kill me.