Hi yall,
Me 23M and my former situationship 25F were talking for about 2 months. We have great chemistry but she decided we should stop talking for a little since i asked from the beginning that “it didn’t drag on” and she wasn’t ready to give 100%. It was really hard her i could tell, she was crying in the car, told my friend she was crying for about a week after we ended. My friend also said that she definitely was hurt and affected by us ending.
She’s an amazing girl, there’s more context but i just want you guys to know that she really did/ probs still does like me a lot. But she’s saying that she feels bad she can’t give me full attention and commitment but in a few months maybe we can try again.
I want to text her that i miss seeing her, it’s been a month since we have talked. she said i can text her whenever i want to talk, vent, or talk about our situation. She was practically pleading that I did so even though i said im not going to want to bc i genuinely thought that. But part of me feels like i’m overstepping. I just want to say i miss seeing her, that’s all. Not, can we try again or anything of that nature. Does anyone see any harm in doing so?