So this 24f and I 26m ( this probably doesn't matter but she's black and I'm white) have been talking for about a week we talk a lot on the phone for a few hours at a time we have a lot in common, but most importantly the same interest in our future.
We had our first date yesterday it was really great we had an amazing picnic at the park with wine and food/fruit/ and chocolate caramels. We polished off a bottle of wine and food and layed in the blanket on a hill together honestly the best date I ever had. we got close we kissed honestly felt like something straight out of a movie. After we packed up the picnic we walked along the river to a cafe on the water and had another drink each I had a beer she had a cocktail.
Towards the end of the night after about 8 hours together, we sat by the water and talked more, she started to get upset and was telling me how amazing the date was going and how amazing I am and in so many words hinted at the thought of telling me she loves me but then stopped herself saying it was to soon and she didn't want to scare me off or move to quickly. I told her I believed in chemistry at first sight that we have a strong attraction to one another but true love isn’t instant. It takes time to grow, to be tested, and to prove itself through patience and commitment she agreed. I think she was just getting caught up in feeling while maybe being a little drunk because she a smaller girl?
I honestly like this girl a lot but she seems a little immature emotionally but mature in other aspects of life. I want a second date with her but I just want to make sure things don't move that fast. We are not exclusive yet.