Hi redditor!! I want to tell a story.
This is abt me F 27 and M 29
I kinda feel that my femininity is damaged. Since the last time i had a boyfriend was 2 years ago.
So im pretty insecure because previously my father went bankrupt and my mom worked super hard to cover that. In which is the bankrupt era i downgraded my uni for the family.
After graduating i become super hardworking and money oriented and it seems to drive guys away because they thought i was greedy- kinda.
So i eventually met my ex 2 years ago and he helps me a lot in job accompany me and make me feel safe- but broke down later because i panicked he was gonna resign.
After that i tried meeting many guy on dating app but none work out
Now i finally went to another uni to start a new life~ feeling great and met a nice guy that i feel like his job and physics and personality is perfect- until we got into one small miscommunication and he said he cant see me as someone longterm and would be down for casual as i am physically attractive.
I was kinda what the hell and didnt know whats wrong with me. I thought after working and kinda self sufficient, caring for myself and appearance, a small miscommunication slip would be tolerated but now that he takes me “casual” when im doing my best just makes my self confidence shatter
Any thoughts?
TL;DR; female feels like she is broken psychologically for dating 🙁