I’m in a relationship if my partner and have been for almost 10 months now, this is our second time being together as well [last time was 9 months] and I don’t really feel loved at all in our relationship, when we always talk it’s whenever I message or call first, she’s never really romantic or intimate with or towards me and one thing that’s really bothering me is something I found out recently, when we split up in January 2024 she slept with another guy [about 6 months after], normally I wouldn’t care but we spent 9 months together and I rarely got to kiss her, and even after being together for almost 10 months now all we’ve done is make out for a bit. Is this normal? Healthy? Or should I be concerned?
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Sounds like you should leave
Yeah, you need to have a serious conversation
Is there a reason you guys haven’t had sex? It sounds like it’s not a morality thing if she slept with another guy. I think she just doesn’t like you very much, leave the relationship and learn to value yourself more
I wouldn’t feel particularly appreciated by this either. I think it’s time to move on.
Leave straight up time to leave