So a couple years ago me and this girl hooked up after a college party and we started hooking up regularly over the summer following that. We only really went on one date and we hooked up until she left to study abroad. Fast forward a year later and she’s back but we don’t hang out. I was initially fine with that since I was moving on with other people and I assumed she was too. Over the past 6 months I have been getting this desire though to go on a date with her and try and start an actual relationship. I don’t know why. I was seeing a girl over the past few months and we JUST ended things, not to mention the last time we spoke I wanted to hang out and she accuses me of only wanting to bang. I told her no but don’t bother her anymore following that. What should I do about this?
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Sometimes when you’re intimate with another, feelings can explode to the point where even the most committed might want to date that person.
The question is, do you enjoy the person’s company outside of sex? Do you have things in common? Those are important questions to ask yourself. Because FWB relationships can morph into serious ones – but they can often go the other way as well.