TLDR; My (27F) fiancé’s (28M) friend made comments about my physique. Am I wrong to feel my fiancé should’ve jumped in?
Need some honest opinions/advice. For context – l've (27F) been engaged to my fiancé (28M) for 2 years, dating for 5. (He's never once made a comment about my weight or my physique). Throughout our 2-year engagement, l've lost about 25 pounds. It's been through extremely hard work, disciplined diet, and borderline eating disorder if I'm being completely honest. (For background I am 5’6 and 135 pounds) Today we went to dinner with my fiancés friend, let's call him Jake. Jake commented on my physique and went on to say "it's not that you were ugly or overweight before, but you look so much better now" and kinda lamented about it. my fiancé didn't jump in so l literally turned to him and said "do you have anything to say about that?" And he said "I don't comment about that stuff". Am I overreacting to be hurt he didn't defend me? And also to feel like maybe deep down he feels like he preferred this version of me?