I see a lot of comments on posts of good-looking men who post that they’ve never dated. Comments like “your personality probably sucks” are always on these kinds of posts. As an autistic man (high-functioning) who stays in shape, I find this demeaning. It’s not a choice to not be oozing in charisma for me. Not every man is wired to have the personality of a rapper. Is dating just for bombastically extroverted men? My dad and both my grandfathers are somewhat introverted, but funny and loving. I’m the same way. People point at men who naturally aren’t ladies’ men for not being immediately interesting as if it’s a fixable flaw they should be ashamed of, but it’s about brain chemistry.