Hey, need some advice here. (Typing on mobile)
I’ve been dating a guy for about a month. We aren’t exclusive, and haven’t talked about it. Things are casual right now. He asked to come over last night but unfortunately before he did I fell asleep. I did leave the door unlocked for him to come in. I say all that to say that we didn’t get to spend any time together. The next morning, I woke up, and he was there beside me. I work from home so I had to log into work, and I did that in the living room to be sure not to wake him. About an hr into work, I need to use the bathroom. The way my apartment is set up, the bathroom is in my bedroom. I open the door quietly as to not wake him and there he is, Dick in one hand and cellphone practically an inch from his face. I startled him cause he jumped and throw the cover over his junk. I, shocked, not sure if I saw what I saw ask him if I startled him which he replies I did. Then it got awkward. Me standing by the door staring at him and he laying in my bed staring at me. I finally break and run to the bathroom cause I had to go but…. Woah.
We have sex, we just didn’t that night. I know I’m working from home but it’s nothing to call me in for some rendezvous yet he didn’t. He was doing it in my bed while I’m in the next room. That’s pretty strange??? Or am I overreacting?
I leave the bathroom and he’s just scrolling on his cell not saying anything. I hear my teams going off, a meeting about to start. I look at him and give him a confused look and run back to the living room. Few minutes later he’s out the door giving me the “I’ll call you” hand gesture. No time for me to react as I’m on cam during my meeting. Some advice is needed. I think it’s funny now but I’m trying to understand the logic. I called him and he ain’t answer. Sent a few text with to reply.