I'm going to try and give as much detail but be as concise as possible. But it's 5am and I've had a drink so just bear with 🙂
I (36f) have this "acquaintance". We have kids at the same school, find ourselves in events/chatting together. We also are involved in the same sports team so time spent alongside eachother also on weekends. We are on each others Facebook and also have a pretty decent friend streak on the Duolingo app 😉
Would I say we are solid friends? I'm not sure.
Anyway, the weekend just gone we were texting about some boring mundane sports related stuff and the conversation quickly escalated to flirting and sending nudes! We are both single so no issues there. We were goofing around by text and I suggested he should just come over since he's only a couple of streets away.
I answer the door naked and well, we spend a couple of hours exploring each others bodies. Hot 🔥
There was no awkwardness and everything just clicked between us.
Since then – I'm either a) getting mixed messages or b) totally overthinking and I'm hoping Reddit can help me decide which category I'm in 😂
So the morning after – we share a few texts. He calls me heavenly. We decide between us that it will definitely not be a one off. Nice.
Then we spend a day at the sports event.
That night I say he should come for a glass of wine and he says he's exhausted! (6 hours on the field in the sun after being awake til 3am the previous morning would do that. No issue.)
Since then, he's on holiday. His texts have been sporadic. And very to the point.
He did say the other night he wishes he was here. And called me yummy 😂 but I dunno, it just feels like I'm more keen than he is to get together ahain.
I've recently been a victim of ghosting after a short relationship so I am quite possibly overthinking. I'm not going to text him now until he's back from his break but I'm just confused. And I don't want to be too full on. But at the same time I want this man. Again and again! 😂🔥
Why is this so hard?? I wish people would just come out and say exactly what they mean/want.
I'm just kind of sat here wondering if the chemistry/ hot night of passion were not quite for him what they were for me lol (although obviously could tell he enjoyed himself)
This is also not a relationship thing. This is two people causally having sex. So maybe that makes this different. Help 😂😂😂