For 6 months (January – June) I (43f) suspected that my husband (46m) was potentially cheating on me virtually (sexting, sharing/soliciting photos) and/or seeking to meet someone.
I have access to his Google account and saw that he was on hook up boards and I know he was very active in NSFW groups on Reddit leaving really sexual comments on posts. I was in the process of gathering evidence.
he doesn’t know I knew. He never changed his schedule or took up new hobbies. Was always home as usual.
In June he deleted his Reddit account and also stopped visiting the message boards and is watching way less porn. His google history is 100% just regular stuff now.
Throughout this entire time he’s been a loving husband and we’ve had an active and fulfilling sex life and relationship.
I don’t think he suddenly got slick about it – he didn’t know I could see his search history and we share a phone plan. I suspect he crossed a line somewhere – and it led to him reflecting and stopping
Tl;dr: my husband was actively on NSFW sites and message boards and suddenly stopped. Could he have cheated or gotten close?