Every time I (30) show my partner something (30) I like they tell me why I shouldn’t like it. We’ve been friends for 15 years and together for 1. But every time I show them a movie, they sigh and tell me why I shouldn’t like it. They asked me where my dream vacation would take place. I said Hawaii, and now they’re constantly sending me videos about why you shouldn’t go there. When asked what my favorite breakfast food is (pancakes) I had to listen to why I was an idiot for preferring them to waffles. We watched a movie last night where a woman is murdered and He told me about how much He hates women getting murdered in movies despite the fact that the previous night we watched a movie where 3 women are murdered that He picked out. Is there a technique for letting it go? It feels like He finds fault with everything I try to show him.


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