my girlfriend and i have been together for about a year and a half, mainly long distance. she made the decision to move overseas and stay with me for a while on a visa.
she just told me that a couple months ago before she left to move here, that she kissed her friend. she told me she was at a party with her work friends and they were all teasing her and her friend and telling them they should kiss. they all knew she had a girlfriend. my girlfriend tried to avoid it, but she eventually ended up kissing her friend on the cheek, thinking that would be fine. but then kissed quickly on the lips because they were all telling them they should and she didn’t want to move and leave her friends on a bad note.
i don’t know why i’m so upset about this because it’s a meaningless thing. but my girlfriend has always been someone who said she’d never do something like that. we’ve talked before about how even flirting with someone else or hiding something from each other is cheating and she always said that was her one dealbreaker. i know it’s not cheating so i don’t know why it feels like that. she’s always been anxious when i’ve been with friends when i give her no reason to be. so i just feel betrayed and heartbroken. what do i do? we’ve spoken about it last night and i tried to be honest about how im feeling, she started crying and i know she’s sorry for what happened and she regrets definitely regrets it. i just feel like she cared more about her friends feelings than my own. am i being over-dramatic?
the thing is, i feel like i can’t just break up with her. she moved here. and that also hurts, she didn’t want the tell me when it happened because she didn’t want me to tell her not to come, so she waited until she was here. am i supposed to just send her home?
TL;DR my girlfriend kissed her friend because her friends kept telling her to, now i don’t know what to do.