I’ve gotten her lots of jewelry, clothes, knickknacks, etc. but I really want to do something special for our 10th in about a month. We met due to our shared love of Buffy the vampire slayer. Her Christian faith is very important to her. We are foster parents. She suffers from chronic pain and I’ve tried buying her all sorts of massages and supplements but nothing helps. We both play pickleball. We have two dogs which she loves almost as much as the foster kids. We’d love to travel but we’d have to take the kids and dogs, one of the dogs is very old and we don’t want to be away from her. She just turned 40, her work is a stay at home foster mom. We live in Maryland, just in base there’s anything fun near Maryland happening soon. For her birthday I painted a picture of her and the foster kids but she didn’t seem impressed. I’ve written songs before but I’m not the best singer. She doesn’t seem all that thrilled about jewelry anymore. I got her a gift certificate to a spa for Christmas and she used it but still doesn’t seem special enough.
No ideas are bad ideas! The more romantic/thoughtful the better!