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Detroit: not a single match on dating apps over 2 months (even going out 30 miles), but the women are super easy to talk to in person. They don't even really care how well you're dressed.
Chicago: a seemingly endless supply of decent matches on dating apps (even when I'm lazy and only set my distance slider to 2 miles because I'm going to take two trains), but it's so difficult to strike up a conversation with anybody. And nobody has any time. I only match with doctors and lawyers it seems. Things feel just a bit superficial.
I think I just look better on paper to educated chicago women. But I enjoyed my time in detroit more because it feels more natural to meet people in person–I feel more invested and attached to them.
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I read this and was like, have women my age become doctors yet?
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which environment actually leads to better relationships for you? sometimes the harder to access people aren’t actually better partners, they’re just harder to access
People still live in Detroit?
I mean, a little out of topic, but there is something similar in Brazil, asians are so popular over there but Americans/standard is not that much.
Idk just wanted to put this out there