This is completely random but it's been on my mind all week. I'm recently divorced, since May. Everything's good and it was for best, it really was. As we were settling things my ex turned into the meanest defensive person I've ever met. Never saw that side of her.
Anyway, a couple years ago she came to me all pissed off that I gave her Chlamydia….completely shocked I didn't believe her. She showed me the documents from the doctor and sure enough she had it. However I didn't believe I gave it to her and had not had sex with anyone but her for at least 7 years leading up to this. She demanded I go get checked, so I did. I went and got checked by two different private doctors plus the public health department. Both blood and urine tests. I came back negative on every single one. Not even questionable. They said if it was dormant it would have shown up in the blood test. The look on her fave when I showed her the negative results is a look I'll never forget. She was a ghost. We both got some anti-biotics to clear it up but I never took mine because I'm clean…then we never spoke of it again. Ever since things were different and began spiraling downhill to where we are today. The divorced was based on way more than this, it actually had nothing to do with this but this incident still weighs on my mind.
So, I say all that to say this. Now that we are split up for good, she cheated on me right? There's absolutely no other way to get chlamydia except from another person, right? I shrugged it off for the sake of our marriage but it's been constantly dwelling in the back of my mind especially this week. I mean the proof is in the pudding, am I right? I just really need some closure on this intrusive thought.