My gf(31f) and I(27m) have been together since April and she's clearing in love and possibly obsessed with me, while im slowly realizing I just dont feel the same way. Getting in to the relationship initially took longer than I should've been okay with since she caused me to reschedule several dates until we finally met up and started dating, and recently I've been seeing small nitpicks about her while she somehow thinks im perfect. We've spend basically every weekend together except this upcoming weekend where because of work and spending time with some friends, shes only seeing me once with weekend and won't shut up about how she misses me like I dont still talk to her everyday. She doesnt have any friends and is incredibly dodgey about meeting my own friends because of issues shes had with people in her past, plus she doesnt get along with practically anybody since she tends to be very judgemental and insists she knows everything about someone just by seeing a picture of them. To her credit, she does a lot for me like cooking, cleaning, and being someone to lean on since I work away from my close friends and family. Last thing I want to mention is she wants to live with me, but refuses to leave the state we currently are in because her family is here.
TL;DR my gf is in love with me to a boarderline obsession and is heavily reliant on me while I just dont feel the same outside of some level of affection towards her still.