Thank you to anyone who has stopped now to read
I am a 34m who is 2.5 years into his 3rd remission in 3.5 years. I have 3 wonderful kids 3.5, almost 6 and almost 9.
We put an offer in on a new home and it was accepted just Monday evening.
I want to be all “yay”, and I am most of the time. But, it’s a larger upgrade than I was anticipating and it all happened fast.
I was lucky enough to buy a fixer upper in my shitty little home town ten years ago. Been a labor of love and is setting us up nicely.
I find myself more anxious than ever due to the new mortgage & worries of financial expenses. It’s a wonderful home for our family.
I just worry that if anything were to happen to me that they would struggle and may have to move.
How do I move through the past major scares and current scans while trying to look to the future?
I want to be uplifting positive but find myself stressing over the overall expenses that I don’t even know fully in detail.
Anyway- long story still long- what coping or mechanics help me try to deal with them as they come and put them where they go if you will vs having them float around causing me unneeded worry.
Thanks all, only here because I have no where else to turn to at the moment.