My husband (37m) and I (36f) met 10 years ago. After a few months I wantend a relationship. He passively algreed. 6 months later he needed to move out of his appartement. His parents told him, he should move in with me. He told me and i agreed. He moved in and we married 2 years later because i wanted to. Not because he asked me. No romantic gestures. He did not even get me a weddingring, when he knows i would like one.
I am starting to feel unhappy with my marriage because i have the feeling he never really chose for me. He went with the flow.
Ofcourse he knows and we are in therapy, but things are not changing.
He is so passively in our marriage, i cry all the time and consider divorce.
Any thoughts?