My wife (75) and I (75) have been married for 50 years and remain intimate about once a week, with the help of Bimix. Over the past few years, it’s become increasingly difficult for me to reach orgasm, to the point where I’m concerned my wife may not want to continue the effort.
I had a robot-assisted laparoscopic prostatectomy (RALP) about 15 years ago, but these issues didn’t begin until much later. The sensation throughout intercourse is still very pleasurable, but climax often doesn’t happen. When it does, it’s usually in the doggie position after 15–20 minutes, but that position has become less comfortable for my wife as we’ve both become less flexible.
I am not taking SSRIs. Solo, the time to climax is about the same. Are there any suggestions for improving orgasm, other positions that might help, or other approaches we should consider?