I M(32) have been working in my current workplace since January and I'm content and happy, a new colleague started and I thought she was really nice, friendly, always has a smile.
We started talking and have a lot of same interests, one being that she likes languages (she's speaks Spanish, I speak French, Irish and a few other languages to lesser levels).
I've noticed that she laughs at my really shit and awful jokes (I'm a walking terrible joke machine trust me). And yeah been thinking about her when she isn't in.
But I'm conflicted, as a rule I NEVER date co workers, I don't approach women in the same gym as me , i like to keep my third spaces and work place drama free because I've seen first hand what happens when people who date each other work together and more often than not it gets messy (granted I have seen one of two that have ended up happily ever after).
My fear is, I'm worried that my feeling my develop deeper or should I just go for it?