Me and my boyfriend were having sex per usual but I haven’t been able to finish lately. So I told him to give me the works and he went at it. At one point he was groping my butt and then I got this really sharp pain, I ignored it because I was to caught up in pleasure to care but after it really started to hurt so I tried to see what it was using a mirror and I had a deep cut right below my asshole. It was bleeding a lot so I’ve cleaned it etc
But I need advice on what to do now, do I leave it?
It’s in such an awkward place and is bound to get infected.


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    Me and my boyfriend were having sex per usual but I haven’t been able to finish lately. So I told him to give me the works and he went at it. At one point he was groping my butt and then I got this really sharp pain, I ignored it because I was to caught up in pleasure to care but after it really started to hurt so I tried to see what it was using a mirror and I had a deep cut right below my asshole. It was bleeding a lot so I’ve cleaned it etc
    But I need advice on what to do now, do I leave it?
    It’s in such an awkward place and is bound to get infected.

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  2. I had this happen once. He essentially grabbed 1 cheek in each hand and ripped me there. So, so painful. It took a couple of weeks to be normal. I just made sure to keep clean. Get wipes to use after going to the bathroom to ensure it’s clean, and I used neosporin. Just take it easy the next couple of weeks to avoid reinjury.

  3. Go see a Doctor. A tear down there can get seriously infected. Why the H did he use a mirror. They make safe fun toys. Invest in them.

  4. See a doctor IMMEDIATELY. It’s not good at all!! A gynecologist if possible. No sex in between please.

  6. When you mean below asshole, is it the space between your vaginal opening and anus? That is called a perineal tear and is rather common. Depending on severity, you might need to get it addressed with a gyno. Google perineal tear, there are some diagrams you could use to determine the degree of severity.

    Keeping the area clean is going to be very important. Also, people who are prone to perineal tears usually get them more than once. Repeat tears have a risk of scarring in that area which could lead to a weaker pelvic floor.

  7. You really need to see a doctor. Depending on how deep it is you might need switches and you’ll definitely need antibiotics to avoid an infection with the location

  9. Start doing salt soaks ASAP and don’t hesitate to seek actual medical attention if it doesn’t start to get better on its own. Google the term “sitz bath” for instructions on how to soak it. The salt will help fight bacteria and then order on amazon or find in a store a Hypochlorous acid product that is meant for use on the body. Use it regularly on the healing wound to keep bad bacteria away from your injury. Good luck!

  10. the skin in that area isn’t like other skin, it will not get infected like other skin, specifically because of where it’s located. you should be fine.

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