Let’s get real for a sec — on a scale of 1 to 10, where would you rank yourself and your partner when it comes to your sex life? And how do you both handle any differences that come up?

Here’s a simple scale to consider (but feel free to add your own twists):

  1. Masturbation
  2. Vaginal sex
  3. Sex toys
  4. Oral sex
  5. Role playing
  6. Light BDSM (like blindfolds, gentle spanking, fuzzy cuffs)
  7. Anal
  8. More intense BDSM
  9. Threesomes or swinging
  10. Group sex

Would love to hear your thoughts and how you navigate those different levels!


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