Let’s get real for a sec — on a scale of 1 to 10, where would you rank yourself and your partner when it comes to your sex life? And how do you both handle any differences that come up?
Here’s a simple scale to consider (but feel free to add your own twists):
- Masturbation
- Vaginal sex
- Sex toys
- Oral sex
- Role playing
- Light BDSM (like blindfolds, gentle spanking, fuzzy cuffs)
- Anal
- More intense BDSM
- Threesomes or swinging
- Group sex
Would love to hear your thoughts and how you navigate those different levels!