Before having our daughter my husband and I were optimistic. After a challenging pregnancy where I lost job after job due to pregnancy restrictions, life became hard. I finally landed a wfh job that pays a little above minimum wage. Because of our financial restraints I am also caring for my daughter. His mother helps out twice a week, we do not have any other family in the state we live in. Me pumping, working, and caring for my daughter tires me out. Life has been challenging the stress has caused my milk supply to drop, my ppd has me all over the place. My husband had to get a second job to pay off our debt. Our goal is to be debt free when our daughter starts school. During all this my husband lifts me up here and there but also makes back handed comments which drags me down. I’m trying to keep optimistic knowing as soon as my daughter is ready I’ll be finding another job that pays more hopefully remote. What send me off edge today is that my husband said he sees employees taking home larger checks than me at the pizza place he works at. Why does my job have to pay 💩and went on talking about how it sucks to have my job. ( to clarify, my husband has a first job which is his career job and the second one is a manager at a pizza place) this is not the only time he has said things like this that just puts me down. Yesterday I became numb. He was trying to talk to me but I couldn’t speak. I kept crying. He noticed something was wrong and to make up, he wash the dishes, did the laundry, hung the clothes up. Instead of feeling appreciative I just felt anger, why does it take me feeling like crap for him to help out. I know he works two jobs but he comes home and does not engage. I get it he is tired, but when he does it seems to put me down. I just am lost and don’t want to fight for a relationship where my partner cannot respect me. There was a time where I made more than him, I never once put him down and paid for things happily without making him feel bad. I just wish I can go back…