So, yesterday I went to hug my husband as per the usual before we go to sleep and he does this thing where he will pat my back….like a dog. He will keep staring at his phone, I try to hug him more and give him more affection and then if I stay longer than mayeb 30 seconds he get more frustrated and then he eventually said…you don't listen to me so I'm done with you. I don't want to talk to you. I'm done talking cause when I ask you something before you don't listen. I'm like bro about what, can you tell me and he's like it doesn't matter anymore.
Ummm ok. So long story short…we have a dead bedroom for 3 to 4 years now… should I call it and just get the divorce lawyer?
I don't want money from him and I don't want the house. I literally do not want child support from him or a red penny from the car dashboard.
I want most of the custody and time with ny daughter. Basically, Idk I want to leave cause I just don't want to be with someone who doesn't even want to give me a hug and who seems like holds some deep resentment for me. I don't want my child seeing that.
I thought he's not initiating sex with me cause he had some depression going on or he'll I thought he was gay for a while. Now I think he just resents me and don't know if that gonna ever change…so let me leave and let him be happy. He obviously thinks I am the source of his misery.