M19, (20 this Saturday)
I don’t post on reddit too often, but I guess I just needed somewhere to speak about this.
I’m not usually this vulnerable on the internet, and I hate asking stuff like this online, because it makes me feel like a bit of a loser. I hesitated several times to post this as well.
I gotta be honest the feeling of being single, ready to mingle, and being mentally put together but also still getting shot down by every girl I come across really starts to consume me after a while.
Some part of me feels like I know why girls don’t like me, and it’s probably because of how I look or my personality, which I think both are completely fine. I’m usually very outgoing, yet also very quiet and shy a lot of the time. But i’m very easy to get along with aside from most people out there who seem impossible to get along with.
I don’t wanna speak too much on my personality unless it were in DMs, but I won’t lie, I really want to be in a relationship with a girl. I wanna be able to be there for her, give her a shoulder to lean on when she needs it, I wanna inspire her, tell her she is beautiful and an amazing person.
Overall, I just want a serious relationship and not someone who just wants to be with me just because. I take relationships very seriously.
Trying to get in contact with girls is so impossible these days, it’s so upsetting to see… I don’t know if it’s just my area, but it really does seem like it is impossible.