Ok guys I need some help. This is going to sound strange off the bat but I’m trying to make my life better. Going through a rough patch. I (28f) live with my parents in a converted garage that I share with my cousin (27m). My parents and younger siblings live in the house, no other rooms. We divided the space with curtains and I have a privacy screen for my space but it’s one room and we share a bathroom.

I’m living here until I can get back on my feet. I’m training for a career right now where I’ll be more financially well off yada yada, it’s going to be ok.

but my cousin masturbates at night and I can here him. It makes me uncomfortable and I don’t know how to approach him about it. He is nice and we grew up together but he is lacking etiquette here. I don’t really want to talk to him about it because of how uncomfortable it makes me feel. How should I approach this? Should I just tough it out until I can move out?

Please no harsh judgement but I need advice.

TLDR i 28f live in a shared space with my male cousin 27m until i can get back on my feet but he masturbates at night and it makes me uncomfortable. i don’t know how to handle the situation and i feel too uncomfortable to approach him about it. what should i do?


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