My (30F) “partner” is also my ex. We started talking again about 5 weeks ago and have slowly been reconnecting.
Last weekend, we spent the day together and were intimate for the first time since getting back in touch. The same night, he left for a weekend trip with his friends (this was planned in advance, so no surprise there).
The problem is… the day after he left, I heard nothing from him, not even a short text, for a full 24 hours.
This isn’t the first time he’s done this. Back when we were together, I told him more than once how much it affects me emotionally when he disappears for long stretches without any kind of check-in. I’m not asking for constant texting, just a small message to feel acknowledged.
Now I’m wondering: am I overreacting by feeling hurt and annoyed about this? Or is it fair to expect at least some communication after being intimate and reconnecting ?
Or did he just have a post nut clarity ?