Hey guys, I was dating this guy for a few months and everything was amazing. I thought he was my person and was really excited about this new connection because I find it hard to let people in but I let him in. We introduced each other to friends and communicated how we could really see a future with each other.
Long story short 1-2 months into dating a lot of things in his life changed, family being sick, demanding job, injury, etc. and due to this he started being very distant with me. He reassured me he liked me but his actions were telling me different, he finally told me that he was dealing with mental health issues about the whole situation but bc I’m an anxious person and an avoidant despite what he told me my mind kept telling me he just didn’t like me. We both decided that maybe we should take some space while he focuses on himself and the same for me. To be fair I think it was needed but I genuinely miss him. I feel so stupid since we only dated for so short but damn I really thought it was my person. I just don’t know what to do while we both take some space, has anyone ever been through something similar?
I am the type of person who always keeps myself busy and likes to always have plans but even for the hour I’m not doing anything I can’t help but think of if it’s wise what I’m doing, that I miss him, etc.