I'M 25F I have a very good friend 20M, we met something like a year ago and we started a rock band 6 months ago .
I am absolutely not attracted to him and I have 0 feelings for him for multiple reasons, he also has a girlfriend. I think this was very clear.
But we had really great time as friends working on the band project. I was singing and writing lyrics, he was doing the compositions.
A month ago I started to have suspicions he had a crush on me cause complimented me on my appearance and he said stuff like : I'd love to live here (my place, with my roommates) , you will come one day (his home country) or being very toward physical touch like hugging you know. I don't particularly appreciate physical touch with my friends and I'm not use to having hetero masculine friends…. So I was like ? Does it mean something ?? But he has a girlfriend ?
Then this was out of my mind cause he started answering texts with more delay.
Usually he always answers right away.
I asked him last time we seen each other if everything was ok and he said absolutely yes, nothing wrong with me , that I had to stop thinking.
We had plans and we're speaking about them. We were laughing a lot and all.
I had found another guitar player for the band and they played together. But it's the last time I seen my friend.
He blocked me without any explanation everywhere and blocked all my friends too.
I'm devastated. I'm loosing one of my best friends and my music project.
Everyone told me it must have been that he had a crush on me. Someone who saw us together a week before though the same.
Did you already end up in this situation ?
Would you do like he did ? If you had a crush on a friend ?