Here’s the situation: I’ve been talking to this guy for about 2.5 months. We live in different cities. During all this time, everything was perfect – he always organized everything, we visited each other, spent time together, had many great moments and trips. Sometimes I stayed with him for 5 days, sometimes he came to visit me.
Recently, I spent more than a week in his city again, and everything was really good. We laughed a lot, hugged, enjoyed each other’s company. But on the last dinner before I left, one of my friends asked him directly: “Are you guys dating or together?” He immediately answered, “Just dating.” I hadn’t brought up the topic yet because I wanted things to develop naturally.
After his answer, I got very upset, drank more, and became cold and angry, which he noticed. The whole evening I was basically drunk and angry at him without explaining why. The next morning, he said I behaved like a different person and that it hurt and upset him. He said I don’t trust him and can’t show my weaknesses.
Regarding the status of the relationship, he said he likes me and we are serious, but without labels for now. He wants to get to know me better, is not seeing anyone else and doesn’t plan to.
I deeply regret how I behaved, especially after he asked about our relationship.
He still texts me all the time, just like before, but I feel like he might start distancing himself. I’m very worried and don’t know what to do to put this stupid episode behind us.
What do you think and what would be your advice?