I [21M] have been dating my boyfriend [20M] since April. In the beginning, he was very sweet and caring (he still is), but he also gave me a lot of gifts and did small things for me, like skipping some of his lessons to spend time with me or doing thoughtful favors without me asking.
Nowadays, he’s not the same in that sense. He’s stopped with the small favors and gifts, and I feel like I’m not as much of a priority for him as I used to be. For example, he went shopping with his grandma recently and said he would get me a Pokémon booster pack, something I collect since as a kid, all time love. He even texted me things like “I AM getting it for you!!!!” and mentioned it a few times before he went out. But later, he said he couldn’t because he had to leave early or something. I felt frustrated because, with how much he hyped it up, I thought it was a priority for him. If it were me, I would have made sure to get it, or if I wasn’t sure, I wouldn’t have promised it in the first place.
This also happens when we’re planning fun things to do together. He often forgets things I’ve said I enjoy, while I remember almost everything about him, like his favorite shows and his favorite restaurant.
I’m starting to wonder if I’m getting upset over small things or being kind of an asshole about it, like I’m silently thinking, “Look at how much of a good boyfriend I am! You should be like this too!” I don’t know if I should bring this up to him or just keep it to myself.
TL;DR: My boyfriend used to be more thoughtful with gifts and small gestures, but lately he’s stopped, and I feel less prioritized. I’m not sure if I’m being unreasonable or if I should talk to him about it.