My boyfriend and I have been the best of friends for years and gotten along great.
Hes the only one I think i can trust but hes start drinking again and its turning him into a different person.
On my moms birthday, who is passed on now.
He insisted we go out to a Halloween party and i refused so he went and i stayed home. I believed this upset him.
He called me up drunk and cussing me out after we agreed to meet another day so we wasnt talking for the rest of the night.
I told him just to leave me alone for the night and he was drunk and saying hurtful things like "I know what today means to you and i wanted to be there today but if youre gonna act that way sorry i was ever there"
(We dont live together)
Fast forward to December its my birthday month and we're doing fine and hes planning taking me out for 2 separate dinners.
He didnt call me. Or even text me. Period.
The next couple days he ignored me.
So i move on and end it.
The next couple weeks he sees i moved on and starts contacting me again.
I feel crazy. Like I cant talk to him about this because he says "it didnt happen"
All my feelings are ignored.