Had a guy stare at me and sneak glances with puppy eyes and avoid me nervously for months.
Made my move, no response.
Dude had a long-term girlfriend.
Everyone I talk to salutes him for his boundaries – and I guess he didn't do anything wrong, but I'm quite upset and feel defeated. Basically no one understands why I'm upset and are telling me to just move on. I am super embarrassed and ashamed.
I wish I could hate the guy but instead everyone I confide in immediately tells me he must be in an amazing relationship and is an amazing guy (sure, but how does that help me feel better right now?).
I don't want to upset anyone and would never desire to even homewreck, it's just that nobody really consoles me about my feelings and is only cold-heartedly telling me that it never meant anything (which I can believe) and I should move on immediately..