So I 20M, and my GF, 20F, we have been together for around 2 years now, really love her and its been pretty healthy.
With that being said, past 2 years her old guy friend that was a weirdo and that she dropped after she started dating me – the guy keeps adding her on numerous new accounts even after being blocked and told off. The problem isn’t that she doesn’t tell me or keeps this hidden, shes pretty transparent with this matter of the fact.
During the 2 years we have dated, I’ve brought up the fact that why he is trying to enter our lives? Or asking her “was everything between you two purely platonic? Because why would he keep adding you” and she would respond usually defensive matter saying no it was just purely friends – and obviously I believe her because why not?
Just last night the guy adds again, she tells me, and I jokingly said “how many times did you and this guy flirt haha” and where she completely shifts her tone and breaks down saying how she is sorry and they used to flirt with eachother and were pretty much friends with benefits? And shes sorry for keeping it hidden this long because she did not wanna hurt my feelings, but she said she ended things as soon as we got together
Honestly im very hurt from this, the fact she lied to me about this for so long to “protect my feelings” I believe it utter bs. Yes it did happen BEFORE we dated, but the fact she lied about it so many times and even got mad when I would ask her really hurted me. Shes been apologizing over text and call but I don’t know if I am overreacting
How should I move forward? Am I overreacting?
TL;DR My GF (20F) recently came clean about her guy friend, whom she was friends with benefits with before I (20M) got in a relationship with her. Lying to my face for 2 years